Just a Girl's Thoughts...

Girlfriends Are Special

My day was spent hanging out with K. Since she and B are divorcing, I don't get to see her much. She no longer lives across the street - but I've been to her new apartment a couple of times.

Today, she asked me if I wanted to come over and just hang out at the pool. So, after the ex came to pick up the kidlets, I drove the 1/2 hour to her apartment, and we went to the pool. We swam. We laid out. I put on tons of sunscreen, but still got a little pink.

Then we took quick showers - and went and got manicures and pedicures.

Pure girl time. and NO, there is NOTHING sexual in any way with K. We are just friends. And I realized today how much I miss her being mere seconds away. But, I know from my gut that she is doing the right thing with the divorce.

Then, as I was on my way home from her place, M texted messaged me that she was at my house - so I called her and told her I would be there soon. She and her daughter hung out with me for a couple of hours. We worked on a re-do of her resume. The she left so I could get ready for my date.... For the record, M is going through a divorce right now, too. She moved out of the weekend after K left B.

I adore M. She and I continue to get closer. We have so much fun together - we are always laughing. And she adores my kids, especially my oldest. And my oldest loves her and always asks when she will be coming over to hang out with us.

There is a level of closeness and intimacy with M that I haven't had with other girlfriends that live here - yes, with girlfriends that live in other places - girlfriends that I email with and talk on the phone with - but no one that lives locally.

So she is special to me. I miss working with her, but if luck holds out, she may end up at the new company I'm going to work for....

posted by Just a Girl @ 4:13 AM