Just a Girl's Thoughts...

Shadow Dancing and Other Games

Well, I certainly had an interesting date tonight... And yes, the time stamp is correct. I'm home and have not yet been to bed. Yes, it's after 4 AM.

Well, remember dinner the other night? Well, he and I went out again tonight.

Let's see.... I had decided with the new space to use all of the same nick names, but it's weird calling all the men "he" or "him". What shall I do? Let's just call this guy "J". I've been seeing "J" for a little over a month now. He's older than me, by almost 20 years... but we have fun...

So. There is a fairly upscale swingers club in our area and J asked if I would be interested in going - of course, I said "yes". I've never been and am open to new experiences... Now, J knows about me and Dee. That's a real turn on to him, my interest in women...

I wore a V-neck white blouse that shows lots of cleavage, a sheer black mini-skirt and high heeled sandals.... Oh, and underneath? White push-up bra, sheer black panties and (of course) black stockings...

So, we met at 7:30 and had an 8 PM dinner reservation. Dinner was great - crab cakes for appetizer, steaks (filets), creamed spinach... and two really wonderful Cosmo's made just right.

Then it was on to the club. The club is BYOB, so J brought a couple of bottles of wine. We sat for a bit, simply people watching - and then the club started getting more crowded - and more people meant folks started dancing. And then we started dancing....

I don't get out often to dance, but I had so much fun. I had a couple of dances where another couple danced with us... Dancing with another woman is always fun, but when it involves touching - and her partner is reaching around and touching you as well... now that was a turn on.

Then, I took a turn dancing in the shadow box. The shadow box is a box with heavy white screens with a backlight. When you are in there, no one can see anything beyond your shadow. And silhouettes are so much better when you can see the curves... so I took off my blouse and skirt and danced in my bra, panties and stockings...

When I returned to our table, the gentleman at the next table complimented me on my time in the box, and suggested I try talking his wife (N) into going, too. I even offered to go in there with her, but she was too shy. So HE said he'd go in there with me. While we waited for the box to empty again, J and I and the other couple went out on the dance floor - and as the box cleared finally, SHE changed her mind and decided to go in and dance with me.

Again, I stripped down to just my underthings - and she told me how much she loved my stockings and how nice they looked on me. As for her, she had on a tight-ish dress - so she simply undid the halter part and danced with me, rubbing her bare tits against me at times...

And later, he went in with me. I decided to keep my skirt on with him, but I did strip off my blouse. Hey, it's not like I got naked, I had a bra on. And we had a GREAT time dancing. There is just something that is a turn on to be in the box, knowing that people can kind of see but not know for sure what you are doing. And he did slide down on me, lifted my skirt a little and put his mouth over my panties for a brief moment... but no real contact if that makes sense.

And we danced more on the dance floor. I had forgotten how very fun just going out and dancing can be. And then N and I went to the ladies' room. And, well, we kind of disappeared in there because we sat and talked. She confessed that both she and her husband were attracted to me, but that she wasn't attracted to J. Which is OK - because, as I explained to her, he and I are just dating and we are NOT exclusive. I've told him that, but am still not quite sure he understands it... We talked a bit about their rules, which includes both of them being in the room no matter what happens and what kind of exchange it is. Oh, and safe sex is a must... I can live with those rules...

And she told me how much she enjoyed meeting me and getting to know me - that sometimes, it is just nice to have someone to talk to about living this kind of lifestyle... So, we exchanged phone numbers so that we can get together to chat, for lunch, etc... I've been told by Dee (and a few others) that I am unusual in many ways - especially with my open-ness and open-minded-ness.

Then we realized it was 2:30 and time to head home. I dozed a bit in the car on the way back to his office (which is where we met). He was worried about me getting home, but I was fine. I stopped at a 24-hour Starbucks and got a cup of coffee. I made it home no problem.. but now, am feeling WIDE awake.

NO, there was no sex tonight, but lots of fun play. Made a new friend. And got to play shadow...

posted by Just a Girl @ 4:54 AM